Making fun of death relieves tension.
“After the death of Wendell Phillips, someone visited Judge Hoyer and asked him if he wished to attend the funeral. ‘No,’ replied the judge, ‘I do not; but I approve of it.’ NY Times 1885
my compliments
A friend asked, “What two words would you like to hear at your funeral?”
I avoided his question. “One word I will say your The funeral is generous.”
He saw my escape. “I want to answer you for yourself” I replied, “The question worries me. I’m not sure.”
Later I emailed him, “One word I hope to hear at my funeral is genuine. I have no hidden agenda. I am just being myself.” (His request for two words was too much pressure.)
He wrote back, “That’s a perfect word for you. I totally agree.”
I don’t want to hear, “He was like sand in my underwear,” during my eulogy.
appreciate you
I resist exercising praise. Choose a word instead.
Take death seriously so you can live efficiently:
Marcus Aurelius wrote, “In short, know this: Man’s life is short and trivial. Yesterday a drop of semen; tomorrow fluid, ashes.” meditation
Which one would you like to hear at your funeral?
Today’s Challenge: Live in your one-word compliment.
How to Live for Your Desires – Not for Your Despair
For the brave: How can writing your own praise help you live the life you want right now?
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